I had a dream last night. One that I am not so sure it is one to share...but it was disturbing to the very core. It shook my dreams, my realities, and my beliefs...and it nearly shook my faith in myself and dare I say my husband. I haven't been sleeping. 6 or 7 hours of sleep every night and somehow I wake up exhausted. I come home from work exhausted knowing I have so much work to do, so much housework, cooking...just being a wife, a friend. I haven't seen a friend or even talked to one for well over a week. I guess what I'm getting at is that I know that Satan is trying to get at me. When everything seems so perfect and things are finally starting to settle down...he doesn't want me to be happy and he's trying to get to me in my dreams. Scary huh? Whats even more scary is that I am still feeling that uneasiness 8 hours later. Time to pray, time to confess, time to fast...time to do something. Something that is giving back to God and making my like meaningful to those around me. I have been making excuses that I am not settled in yet...and I'm not. But in a couple weeks I will be painting (yay) then after that I'm sure I'll have another project, and another. I need to make this a priority. It's funny how God puts little hints in your life here and there-people or events or advertisements or fliers for different events...my eyes aren't open...until now that is.
It's time I open my eyes to where God wants to lead me and not where I think I should be going. God led me this far with the man I love, I'm pretty sure he knows what I want more than I do.
First things first...finding a life group. This is not my favorite area, I'm shy and I don't like sharing my personal life with people that I haven't "sniffed out yet." Yeah I know, kind of an awkward way to put it, but if I feel that someone might judge me or think different of me, I don't want to put myself out there only to be hurt. I haven't had the best track record of christian friends but hey I guess that's what trusting in God is all about.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Goodmorning world
So much has changed. So much yet not much at all. I accepted a new job at Thirty-One Gifts on May 23, 2011. It is amazing how one woman can start a business years ago with so much faith in God, that she founded the very business on Psalm 31. Seven years later, that company is growing into a billion dollar industry, yet still holds tight to that very core. I have never seen anything like it. People love each other for who they are, for their talents, their ambitions, and even their faults. We celebrate, encourage, and reward each other on a daily basis, lifting each others spirits and becoming one large family.
What it must be like, what it much feel like to be Cindy Monroe, the founder and still the CEO of the company, to see such a dream to turn into millions of womens dreams. To see success for all of our "sisters" and now "brothers" in Christ.
I am so happy that I was able to have such a job, something that lifts my spirits and makes me feel blessed every single day.
What it must be like, what it much feel like to be Cindy Monroe, the founder and still the CEO of the company, to see such a dream to turn into millions of womens dreams. To see success for all of our "sisters" and now "brothers" in Christ.
I am so happy that I was able to have such a job, something that lifts my spirits and makes me feel blessed every single day.
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Values vs. Career
I have been in a very tough spot these last couple of weeks. We have been short 2 full-time people at the front desk and one part-time person short in my department. So managers have to fill in when and where they can. People are taking leave, vacation days, etc. It is starting to put strain on an already emotional feeling I have about my job. Nothing has changed as far as my tasks go, but because we are short, I now have to occasionally work the front desk on top of all of my duties putting my in overtime for the past two weeks. In my department, being short one person shouldn't stress everyone out as much as it is. My dept is acting like they are falling apart, yet I shouldn't be surprised as they are much older and are working overtime as well.
Now that all of this is going on while being at work, I officially don't like not only my hours and days that I have to work, but don't like actually working either. It is stretching my patience thin and is causing me to look at my values and question if they are really important to me anymore. Everything that is very important to me, my family, my friends, my fiance and his family, God and church and my church family...all of that is a very small part of my life now. If I get to spend any time with them, it's on a weekday or weekend night, in which I have to get up at 4am the next morning. I am then exhausted at work and have even less patience, yet I continue to do it. I shouldn't have to question myself about what is important to me, yet I can't seem to make a decision about what is more important. Do I start job searching for something that better suites my lifestyle? Or do I stay in my current position until the possibility of a promotion or job transfer opens up. There is so much I miss being able to do but it is hard to decipher what I have to sacrifice for my job because it is a part of growing up. Is graduating and starting a career always this hard? Do people really throw away their lives and things they love and enjoy for a job? I just don't want something having that much control over my life. I miss/will miss especially this upcoming summer:
Saturday college football
Sunday at Church and after church with the family
Small Groups
Volunteering at church
Weekend trips to Cinci to visit my friends
Weekend trip to Dayton and Urbana to see my family
Weekend trips anywhere...
Weekends to spend with my friends
Date nights with Johnny where I DON'T fall asleep during the movie or in the car, lol
Just being able to schedule anything on a weekend
Not to mention all of the wedding plans I'm going to be doing, and the people that I have to work with
One thing that is really bothering me is that I will miss Easter Sunday for the first time every this year. Not only church, but after church easter egg hunt for the nieces and nephews.
My fiance moves back in 3 weeks and I am soo excited, yet I feel a bit anxious that due to him being in school, weekends is still going to be the only time we can spend time together. Prayer is the only way to be sure of a good decision.
Now that all of this is going on while being at work, I officially don't like not only my hours and days that I have to work, but don't like actually working either. It is stretching my patience thin and is causing me to look at my values and question if they are really important to me anymore. Everything that is very important to me, my family, my friends, my fiance and his family, God and church and my church family...all of that is a very small part of my life now. If I get to spend any time with them, it's on a weekday or weekend night, in which I have to get up at 4am the next morning. I am then exhausted at work and have even less patience, yet I continue to do it. I shouldn't have to question myself about what is important to me, yet I can't seem to make a decision about what is more important. Do I start job searching for something that better suites my lifestyle? Or do I stay in my current position until the possibility of a promotion or job transfer opens up. There is so much I miss being able to do but it is hard to decipher what I have to sacrifice for my job because it is a part of growing up. Is graduating and starting a career always this hard? Do people really throw away their lives and things they love and enjoy for a job? I just don't want something having that much control over my life. I miss/will miss especially this upcoming summer:
Saturday college football
Sunday at Church and after church with the family
Small Groups
Volunteering at church
Weekend trips to Cinci to visit my friends
Weekend trip to Dayton and Urbana to see my family
Weekend trips anywhere...
Weekends to spend with my friends
Date nights with Johnny where I DON'T fall asleep during the movie or in the car, lol
Just being able to schedule anything on a weekend
Not to mention all of the wedding plans I'm going to be doing, and the people that I have to work with
One thing that is really bothering me is that I will miss Easter Sunday for the first time every this year. Not only church, but after church easter egg hunt for the nieces and nephews.
My fiance moves back in 3 weeks and I am soo excited, yet I feel a bit anxious that due to him being in school, weekends is still going to be the only time we can spend time together. Prayer is the only way to be sure of a good decision.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Being Beautiful
I have been going back and forth between going natural for my hair, or continue to get relaxers. It has been almost over a year since I had my last relaxer and my hair is extremely hard to manage. It is surprisingly more curly then I remember, but the tiny tight curls, not the big curls that I want...which brings me to the problem of not liking my hair unless it's straight. I think I want to put off getting a relaxer until the summer and keep my hair healthy...who knows, I might learn to love my hair...
Anyway. Today was an interesting day. Wore my hair curly and wished everyone happy valentines day while missing my baby...yet I still felt wonderful...it was just a great day. Then I got home late and the stars were out, I don't think I've looked at the stars since the summer. They were absolutely beautiful. Everything is beautiful today, the sun was out, I went shopping, I dressed up to go out, etc etc.
Point is I think it is important no matter how lonely or bad of a day you're having, to look around and be thankful for what is good. It's very easy to forget the little things, and those matter, they really matter.
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Learning to Rely on HIM
Not much has changed since I last wrote. I am still managing the food and beverage sector at the hotel. I am starting to get into the daily grind of either being busy or bored. I don't really mind, it's just that I'm either just hanging out around work until I get paperwork or have cleaning or setting up to do, or i'm stressed and ready to pull my hair out because i'm supposedly supposed to have everything I just received in my mailbox done by the end of the day. I see why people become work-a-holics. It's almost as if I rather be at work everyday so I don't get backed up with work from my day off. I guess that's why people normally dread Monday's, but in my case, it might be a Monday, or a Tuesday, or even a Wednesday.
Anyway. What I find most interesting about work is that I took this job terrified that I was going to hate it, or be horrible at it...but the truth is I like it, and I'm not horrible at it at all, I think I might even be good at it. But I took the job only because I saw it as an outlet, as a stepping stone to get where I want to be, to get to a job that I LOVE. I have come to find out that this might be a dead-end. Sure, I work for a very large company and it shouldn't be hard for me to transfer at all, but I can't just transfer within a 30 min radius for a better job..those don't just open up everyday. I find that I don't have any freedom, I don't have any say to what I want or what I think is best. I am not aloud to have any weekends off, any Sundays off to go to church because I am "on the bottom of the totem poll" as my General Manager said. I think about that everyday, and as much as that might be true and fair, is any job really worth sacrificing every Sunday morning at church, all of your time with your family and friends on the weekends? In one hand, I could start looking for another job, a 9-5 Monday through Friday job that will allow me the weekends to spend that time with my church and friends and family. But will I like it, will I be happy with a job like that? In the other hand, I haven't had a job for more than 6 months in the past year. Do people see that as a bad thing, or is that the norm now because we are taught to follow our dreams and aspirations and reach for the stars? That is the question that has been in my mind for the past 2 weeks. On top of that, I am so busy and stressed with the wedding planning that I don't even have the time or energy to job search right now anyway. I think that it would be a good idea to just stick with my current job until the wedding is over and who knows, maybe a city relocation might be in the near future anyway.
Johnny has been in Indiana working at his co-op for the past three weeks. He has been coming home every weekend so far, so at least I get to see him then, so I know I shouldn't be complaining, but it's hard. I have been telling myself every single day for the past 2 weeks that this is easy, this is nothing. We started dating when I lived in Cincinnati, so we were used to a long distance relationship...but this is different. We're both working full time, sometimes on the same schedule, but not always, but I don't usually have any contact with him until the evening and if something is going on all I get is a goodnight phone call. No blame here, this is life and I keep telling myself that it's not his fault, we have to be responsible adults and get our beauty sleep and workout, and do everything it is we have to do. Besides, this is nothing because after we get married he's not moving for 3 months again, it's going to be 6 months. So why am I so emotional? I've been spoiled for being able to have my best friend and my love with me every single day for the past 6 months that I feel like he is so far away and its hard going through everyday without my best friend. So I've been praying, reading, listening to worship music...trying to get closer to God while I have this time alone. And I think that's what God wants me to do. I hate being alone and I get so frustrated when all I have is my parents to come home to everyday who criticize the crap out of me daily. So maybe God is just telling me that he gave me an amazing person, but I can't rely 100% on that person, but on God. I keep going back to our marriage counseling class, and realizing that when we are together, and we have an argument or one of us goes away on a business trip or even on an everyday basis, we can't rely on each other because no matter how hard we try, we're not perfect and we will fail each other. That's when we rely on God. So in this lonely and emotional time, I need to spend time with God and rely and focus on him. This time alone is not supposed to be sad and lonely, but a blessing that I get to focus more on God and our time to grow together.
I am so blessed to have so many relationships to look up to. My parents, my sister and brother, johnny's parents and his sister, and many of friends around us. God has been a huge blessing in all of our lives and I thank him for that.
Anyway. What I find most interesting about work is that I took this job terrified that I was going to hate it, or be horrible at it...but the truth is I like it, and I'm not horrible at it at all, I think I might even be good at it. But I took the job only because I saw it as an outlet, as a stepping stone to get where I want to be, to get to a job that I LOVE. I have come to find out that this might be a dead-end. Sure, I work for a very large company and it shouldn't be hard for me to transfer at all, but I can't just transfer within a 30 min radius for a better job..those don't just open up everyday. I find that I don't have any freedom, I don't have any say to what I want or what I think is best. I am not aloud to have any weekends off, any Sundays off to go to church because I am "on the bottom of the totem poll" as my General Manager said. I think about that everyday, and as much as that might be true and fair, is any job really worth sacrificing every Sunday morning at church, all of your time with your family and friends on the weekends? In one hand, I could start looking for another job, a 9-5 Monday through Friday job that will allow me the weekends to spend that time with my church and friends and family. But will I like it, will I be happy with a job like that? In the other hand, I haven't had a job for more than 6 months in the past year. Do people see that as a bad thing, or is that the norm now because we are taught to follow our dreams and aspirations and reach for the stars? That is the question that has been in my mind for the past 2 weeks. On top of that, I am so busy and stressed with the wedding planning that I don't even have the time or energy to job search right now anyway. I think that it would be a good idea to just stick with my current job until the wedding is over and who knows, maybe a city relocation might be in the near future anyway.
Johnny has been in Indiana working at his co-op for the past three weeks. He has been coming home every weekend so far, so at least I get to see him then, so I know I shouldn't be complaining, but it's hard. I have been telling myself every single day for the past 2 weeks that this is easy, this is nothing. We started dating when I lived in Cincinnati, so we were used to a long distance relationship...but this is different. We're both working full time, sometimes on the same schedule, but not always, but I don't usually have any contact with him until the evening and if something is going on all I get is a goodnight phone call. No blame here, this is life and I keep telling myself that it's not his fault, we have to be responsible adults and get our beauty sleep and workout, and do everything it is we have to do. Besides, this is nothing because after we get married he's not moving for 3 months again, it's going to be 6 months. So why am I so emotional? I've been spoiled for being able to have my best friend and my love with me every single day for the past 6 months that I feel like he is so far away and its hard going through everyday without my best friend. So I've been praying, reading, listening to worship music...trying to get closer to God while I have this time alone. And I think that's what God wants me to do. I hate being alone and I get so frustrated when all I have is my parents to come home to everyday who criticize the crap out of me daily. So maybe God is just telling me that he gave me an amazing person, but I can't rely 100% on that person, but on God. I keep going back to our marriage counseling class, and realizing that when we are together, and we have an argument or one of us goes away on a business trip or even on an everyday basis, we can't rely on each other because no matter how hard we try, we're not perfect and we will fail each other. That's when we rely on God. So in this lonely and emotional time, I need to spend time with God and rely and focus on him. This time alone is not supposed to be sad and lonely, but a blessing that I get to focus more on God and our time to grow together.
I am so blessed to have so many relationships to look up to. My parents, my sister and brother, johnny's parents and his sister, and many of friends around us. God has been a huge blessing in all of our lives and I thank him for that.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
A Short Moment of Rest, a moment at least
Well. As I said on fb this morning, to be home a little after 12 noon and to have just finished a 6 hour shift is very...interesting. I am amazed at where I am today. I would have never thought that I would take a job that requires me to get up at 4 am and work anywhere from a 6 to 10 hour shift, depending on how much I have to get done that day...and eating when and where I can of course. As the Food and beverage manager, I am responsible for food orders/inventory 2 times a week, then have to be there for receiving 2 more times a week. Then theres the normal stuff, managing, scheduling for my staff due every thursday, Buffet every morning 6:30a-9:00a, Social hour every Mon. tues. and wed. from 6:30p-7:00p. and so so much more. Basically when I get into work I make sure my staff is getting everything prepared, then I sit at my desk and drink herbal tea(trying to stay off the caffeine so i'm not addicted again), try to wake up then start on e-mails and my "to-do list". haha to say the least...I love it so far. I don't have time to do anything except right after work so I don't hit rush hour traffic, but then by night time i'm not tired...so I haven't gotten down the whole going to bed early schedule. soon, soon.
On a side note I hope I get a promotion soon or something so I can start going to church again...i really do miss it :(
Hope everyone has a wonderful holiday. Miss you and love you all!
On a side note I hope I get a promotion soon or something so I can start going to church again...i really do miss it :(
Hope everyone has a wonderful holiday. Miss you and love you all!
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Promotion
I was offered a job that is a step up higher than my current job, and I accepted it knowing I was literally signing every ounce of free-time away. When I applied for the job, it was kind of just because. Just because I wanted to know if I would get the job. Just because.. if I actually got the job I wanted to know if I could actually do it. My new job, as of Saturday, is the Gatehouse Keeper aka Food and Beverage Supervisor. I will be in charge of four employees, a daily breakfast buffet, and a week night happy hour. You're probably asking yourself the same question I am...When do I not work? Good question. It's very low pay, hourly, and not sure if I can receive overtime or not. With all of that being said, I have had less than 24 hours to think about it, but have had time to sleep on it. I am going to see where this leads me. As of right now this is the only way to move up, it's my only outlet right now. Maybe after I learn this side of things, other outlets will open up for me. Besides it will teach me how to be a better leader and I will have much more experience on how to run the food and beverage side of event planning. I'm going to walk into work with a smile and tell myself that this is my dream job. haha, we'll see how that works!
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